Grace Cong Sui, a mother raising her daughter in Los Angeles without nearby family, recently returned from a two-month visit to Qingdao, China. The trip prompted her to reflect on the differences between her parenting style and that of her relatives.
During the visit, Sui observed that her family's approach to discipline and independence differed from her own. She noted that her relatives were more hands-on and strict, while she had adopted a more relaxed, Western-influenced style. This contrast led her to question her methods and seek a balance.
Sui's experience highlights the challenges of cross-cultural parenting, especially when living far from extended family. She continues to navigate her own path, blending elements from both cultures to raise her daughter.
